Between 2005 and 2012, 33% of all marriages were from online dating. (Survey of 19,131 People)
In 2015, 5% of online dating profiles on one of the largest dating sites were vastly over performing the other 95%. What does over performing mean? It refers to the amount of messages received.
The 5% were receiving 5 to 10 times more messages than the average profile. The 5% were also receiving 10 - 20% increases in the quality of person reaching out. (Quality is based on match % which has proven to increase the likelihood of a couple liking each other and staying together long term)
"Okay Mike, you nerd, what does all this data mean?" Very simply, if you are part of the top 5% of online daters, you are the celebrities of online dating and literally get the pick of litter.
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be Beyonce? Literally everyone wants you! Well 5% of online daters get a glimpse at what that feels like.
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This is not going to be a surprise but good looking, successful, 30-55 year old men looking for commitment are hard to find. However, if you do find them, they are being sought after by every other single woman in New Jersey and NYC. How are you going to stand out and actually get a date?
This article could be 20 pages and still not cover everything. But since we are all busy I am going to make this under a page and give you the single most important piece of advice I can give you.
Successful men, exactly like successful women work a lot and VALUE their free time.
How does this effect online dating?
Simple, if you make the guy who works all the time go through hoop after hoop to get you on a date, he is 100% going to move onto the next girl.
What is a hoop?
1. Lots of messaging back and forth
2. Asking for him to email you
3. Requesting a phone call
Get to an in person date as soon as possible. If you go on a first date and he likes you. Soon he will be emailing, calling, and messaging you plenty. However, DO NOT make him invest the time without getting him on the hook first.
Have you ever went on three dates with a great guy, like Nathan? The conversation flows, he is respectful, charming, and you even feel some butterflies when you think about him. More than that, you have start picturing what a life together could be. How exciting! But wait, out of nowhere, the calls, the texts, they all stop. He must have turned into a ghost, because he has fully disappeared!
What should you do?
I want you to send him 100 text messages in a row. Just kidding, don't do that!
However, I am about to give you the best and easiest advice I have ever given. I want you to do nothing. Let's see if he reaches out. If he does, great, respond like you normally would. If he doesn't well I guess he is not interested.
When I say not interested, I mean to say, he is not looking for what you are offering. It doesn't mean you aren't great, good enough for him, or a wonderful person. It simply means he is looking for something different. Be happy he has figured this out after only three dates instead of after 9 months of dating. Thankfully he has saved both of you a lot of time.
If you ever see this guy at the gym or grocery store make sure to be friendly and grateful that he was courteous enough to cut things off early rather than waste your time. Also, if you are still single when you see him PLEASE PLEASE have no shame to your game and do the following.
Say something like, "Hey, great to see you. You know, I thought you were a really great guy. Obviously, you weren't interested which is perfectly fine, but by any chance do you have any single friends that are just as great as you?"
Why is this the best two sentences ever?
1. You are complimenting someone (Good deed for the day #Done)
2. You know this guy has some of the qualities you want, I bet one of his friends has even more of the qualities you need. You are asking for a referral from someone who probably has access to someone who will be high quality.
