You have been dating the same guy for awhile. He has texted you daily, he has cooked you dinner, he has even had sex with you. But one day he disappears. He stops texting and calling.
Why did he do it?
Watch this video for the real answer that most dating coaches refuse to tell you.
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It's time to tell you the truth. No one knows the specific reason "your guy" left. But, what I can tell you is something that can change your life. It certainly changed mine when I heard it for the first time.
"No one can you make you feel anything, you control how you feel." So if you are sad because your guy disappears, or you are depressed because it's winter and you haven't seen the sun in 5 months make the decision to feel happy.
What is the first step to accomplishing this?
Trick Your Brain.
Right Now, make a huge smile, try to be in a bad mood. You can't do it. You can't be in a bad mood with a huge smile on your face.
Second step, start changing your vocabulary. If someone asks, How are you?"
Say, "Amazing, phenomenal, I am having the best day of my life."
When you use these words, much like smiling for no reason, you will trick your brain. Pessimistic about my concept, try it for 21 days and report back. 21 days too long. Try it for one day. Let me know if it worked?
I can promise these little tricks will make your life a little sweeter.
When you find the one relationship that feels just right, you will realize a lot from that great relationship. Here are 10 of the biggest lessons you can learn from being in a truly healthy relationship.
Show Your True Colors: Being your true self with your partner is vital for the development of a great relationship and your flaws won’t seem as awkward to share if you’re with the right person.
Don’t Lament On The Past: Everyone has a past but you shouldn’t let each other’s get in the way of your present. When you care about someone enough, you learn to accept things for what they are.
Never Assume: You can’t presume you and your partner will know what each other is thinking, even if you’ve been together for a while, so communication is key.
Miscommunication Happens: If your partner says something that offends you, stay calm and ask them what they mean. You wouldn’t want to hurt each other on purpose in a healthy relationship, so chances are that it was a misunderstanding.
Forget the Games: Whether it’s showing someone how much you care for them or expressing when you’re upset, being honest shouldn’t be a fear in a good relationship. Be honest, open and understanding with your feelings and theirs.
Stay Independent: Your individual happiness is crucial to be happy within your relationship. Being able to spend time on your own doing the things each of you enjoy will definitely make you happier.
View Things from Their Perspective: Couples don’t always agree. Don’t let your differing opinions cause fights. Take a step back and try to understand each other’s points of view.
Support Each Other’s Growth: Growing as individuals helps your relationship grow. Always support each other in whatever you each desire to further personal growth and be happy together.
Forgive: Forgiveness and letting go of anger that could impact your relationship in the future is so important. Think of your arguments as lessons to make your future communication constructive.
Trust: Cheating, lying and similar behavior shouldn’t be worries on your mind. In a healthy relationship, you need to have unwavering trust and when you do, you can make it through any problems that may arise.
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Relocating for a career opportunity is fairly common, but what about moving to increase your odds of finding a soulmate? Zillow recently revealed the best metros to find love. The rankings are based on the population of single residents and the number of single newcomers. Other factors in the mix include the number of date spots, like restaurants and bars, and the median income of residents 18 and older.
Boston secured the top spot with 66 percent of its population consisting of singles and a staggering 159 romantic meeting places per 10,000 people. Despite the steep cost of apartments, Boston singles, with a median income of $25,000, have a little more dough to spend on their dates.
New Orleans may have a party reputation, but it also ranks as the second-best place in the U.S. to find a match. Fifty-nine percent of NOLA residents are single, and there are 51 date spots per 10,000 residents.
As Zillow’s research indicates, finding a partner may also help offset the high costs of housing. Although married couples represent 60 percent of home buyers, the number of unmarried couples transitioning to home ownership is climbing. In 2015, unmarried couples represented 15 percent of all home buyers compared to 11 percent a decade ago. Meanwhile, the percentage of single home buyers dropped from 31 percent to 25 percent between 2010 and 2015. With two incomes, setting aside money for a down payment is significantly easier given the current trend of rising home prices nationwide.
Check out the full breakdown of metros where love, and perhaps homeownership, is on the horizon.
