Ladies: Have you ever felt disrespected or unheard in your relationship? Maybe he does things that you don’t like or maybe he isn’t showing you the kindness and respect that you deserve. This doesn’t mean that he is a bad person or that he doesn’t care about you. Your man might just need a little more guidance. He simply might not know how to make you happy and he might need you to tell him specifically what to do. Break it down for him by telling him what you need and be sure to explain why It’s important to you.
You have to set the standards in your relationship and your man has to rise to meet them. If he is treating your right, let him know. He will love knowing that he made you happy! If he just isn’t delivering, you have to hold him accountable. If you don’t, he will probably continue with the same behavior and he won’t give you what you need to feel safe, secure, and loved in your relationship.
Men also need clear boundaries for what is and what is not acceptable. This is also important to make sure that you are comfortable and happy. Be sure to specify exactly what your boundaries are in all aspects of your relationship. This can be anything from telling him what you are ready for sexually to discussing what you need on an emotional level. Don't be afraid to tell him exactly how you feel and make sure that you never do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Men actually find these limits to be very sexy and exciting and you should feel free to move at a pace that feels right for you.
If you need more from your man, let him know. Don’t be afraid to speak up. If It’s a good relationship, he cares about you and he wants to make you happy. A little guidance can go a long way! Give your man a roadmap to your happiness and you will both have a wonderful journey together.
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Mike filmed this video with a chipped tooth. He felt embarrassed and silly but he thought that it was important to be vulnerable and confident. He wanted to show you how important these traits are, especially when it comes to dating and relationships. Studies show that the number one sexiest thing for both men and women is…CONFIDENCE! When you are vulnerable with someone, you are showing them that you are confident enough to open up.
So, how can you be vulnerable in your relationship? Don’t be afraid to let him in and tell him how you feel. This can be anything from sharing your fears and anxieties about the future to talking about something difficult that you went through in the past. This will help you really connect and bond and talking about these types of things will also help you to move passed them. Your vulnerability will draw your man to you and really opening up will bring you closer than ever.
Now that you know how to be vulnerable, let’s talk about how to be confident? Speak your mind and tell your man what you want. Confidence is not only sexy, when you are able to come right out and say what you need, you are more likely to get it. Your man will love that he doesn’t have to guess what will make you happy. You told him what you need, he can help you get it, and then he will feel great knowing that he made you happy. It’s a win-win!
Being vulnerable can feel really scary but once you get passed those initial feelings, you will see how many benefits it has. It allows you to let your partner in and really bond and connect with them. It can also help you resolve an issue or find closure. If you aren’t a naturally confident person, the idea of being confident may feel a bit intimidating. You can do it! Once you do, you’ll see how great it is! Your man will find it so sexy, attractive, and refreshing! He will know exactly what he can do to make you happy and that will make him feel great! Feeling sexy and attractive will make you feel great, too! Being confident will also help you get what you need. You will be surprised with all of the wonderful changes that can occur when you are vulnerable enough to let people in and confident enough to stand up for your own happiness.
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In the video above, Mike gets personal and shares a story that illustrates an example of a very common issue. Mike and his girlfriend were heading to his cousin's wedding when they decided to stop to get something to eat. His girlfriend suggested that they get some Greek food and they found an awesome sounding Greek restaurant online. Everything was going great until Mike got a little lost. He began feeling really overwhelmed when his girlfriend tried to help me figure out which way to go. Then, when she then tried to have a conversation about something else, Mike totally lost it! Stressed out, he raised my voice at her. He felt awful for losing his cool and hurting her feelings.
Many men have this limitation and prefer doing one thing at a time. This is difficult for women to understand because they have ten times more receptors between the left and right hemispheres of their brains. This makes them far superior in the multitasking department.
There are some things that women can do to help men with these limitations. You can do your best to understand and accept that he needs to do on one thing at a time. Allow him to focus on completing the task at hand. Step back and give him some time to get things done. Once he finishes whatever he is working on, you can move onto something else. This will help him to feel accepted and at ease, he won’t feel overwhelmed or frustrated, and he will feel great once he completes the task. Men love solving problems and getting things done. If he can devote all of his focus to one thing at a time, he can get a lot more done than if he tried to do a lot of things at once and became overwhelmed.
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