When you figure out that the person that you are dating is your soulmate, it can feel like a total revelation. You suddenly just know, without a shadow of a doubt, that this person is meant for you. Doubts may arise later down the road and that is nothing to be concerned about. These doubts are completely normal and natural. Even if he perfect for you, it doesn't mean that everything is going to be perfect all of the time.
Men and women will often mistake other things, like physical attraction, for a genuine, true connection. Some couples might mistake comfort and easiness as true love, too. Feeling used to someone or not having to work hard at a relationship doesn't mean that it's the right relationship for you.
Whether you believe in love at first sight, true love, soulmates, or you just believe that two people can have amazing chemistry and compatibility, it isn't hard to see that two people can just be right for each other. When you find that kind connection that's when you find your soulmate.
It isn't going to be perfect every second of every day. Relationships, even the ones between two soulmates, are a lot of work. This discourages some couples who think that if they are meant to be together, things will always be happy and positive. Working together through the rough times will strengthen your bond and bring you closer together. If that person really is your soulmate, they will show you time and time again by being there through the good times and the bad times.
John Gray, the author of "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus", delves deeper into this topic in the video below:
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Are you in a relationship but you just aren't sure if he feels the same way about you that you feel about him? Here are 4 signs that he is falling in love with you:
1) He makes future plans with you
This is huge! If he is booking trips or planning to go to events with you, he's expecting that you guys are still going to be together months from now. One of the biggest ways to tell that you are in love with someone is to think about the future. If you can't picture it without that person, that is a pretty good sign that you are in love! By making future plans with you he is showing you that when he looks to his future, you are in it.
2) He introduces you to his friends and family
Many men don't tell their friends and family about a girl unless they are serious about her. If he introduces you to his friends and family, especially if he introduces you to his parents, that is a big sign that he is falling in love with you. It shows that you are important to him and he wants to bring you into his inner circle. It is also a big step if he wants to meet your friends and family. He is looking to get to know you better and he wants to bond with the people that you are close to.
3) He will do things with/for you that he doesn't want to do
This is part of the transition from being single to being in a relationship. When you are single, you only have to report to yourself. When you are in a relationship, you now have to report to 2 people; yourself and your significant other. You don't just worry about yourself and your needs, you have to worry about your partner and their needs. If you see him doing things that he might not necessarily want to do, that's a sign that he loves you. He is putting what you want to do above what he wants to do. He might skip watching a football game to go run errands with you or maybe he'll go see a movie that he isn't interested in because he knows you've been wanting to see. He loves you and he wants to make you happy. You are important and your happiness is a priority for him.
4) He keeps dating you even after you refuse to sleep with him
This is important early on in the relationship. If you can get a guy to make it to date 5 or 6 without having sex with him, that shows you that he really likes you and he wants to get to know you. Making him wait will show you that he is not just looking to have sex. He is really interested in having a relationship with you.
There's no need to guess whether he loves you or he loves you not! His actions will show you how he feels about you.
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When something upsets you, it is perfectly normal for you to feel angry about it. There is a way, however, for you to resolve the conflict without you or your partner flying off the handle. In this video, John Gray, the author of "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus", shares tips to help you move past the issue in a calm and healthy way.
One technique that men can use to help extinguish a heated situation with their partner is to let the woman talk through the issue and listen closely to what she says. Let her tell you how she feels and ask questions to help you understand those feelings. Let her know that you hear her and agree to end the conversation there.
Women feel better when they talk things out but the same usually can't be said for men. Because women find relief in talking about the issue, they think that men will feel better once they talk, too. It is important that women don't push their men to talk about his feelings. When you agree to end the conversation, give each other space and move forward with positivity.
Another mistake that many women make is submitting to the man and placing all of the blame on themselves. When a woman does this, she is giving up her authentic self in order to nourish the man. This attempt at calming him down only hurts him in the long run because it doesn't help him manage his anger. It only destroys the equality of the relationship.
Biologically, when a man is angry, his testosterone turns into estrogen, filling his brain with emotion and making it difficult to think clearly. Next, the blood goes to the limbic system or "the monkey brain". This middle part of the brain is full of mirror cells. These mirror cells will cause him to reflect whatever he sees. This results in a ping pong game with his partner. If she has 5 complaints about him, then he has 5 complaints about her. It goes back and forth, making everything worse.
So what can men do to combat this issue? He can listen to his partner and make her feel safe to tell him how she feels. Next, he can do something to increase his testosterone. He can do pushups, meditate, watch a football game... anything to distract his attention away from whatever is upsetting him. Once he is feeling better, he can go back to his partner with love and understanding. After a fight, she might be worried that he doesn't love her anymore. He should show her affection and kindness and they can move forward with the knowledge that they overcame a conflict together. Their conflict resolution skills will get better and better, strengthening the relationship.
When a conflict arises...try to stay cool and listen to each other. Agree to take a step back and not let things blow up. Understand that you probably have different methods for dealing with your emotions. Men must understand that women need to talk about their feelings and women must understand that men might not want to talk about theirs. You can resolve the conflict together without letting anger get the best of you.
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