Did you ever meet a woman who is simply irresistible? Maybe she isn't particularly physically attractive but men just seem to be drawn to her. What is it about her that is so captivating? It's the way she makes men feel! You can be irresistible, too! All you have to do is give your man what he really wants. He wants to feel needed, appreciated, and accepted.
A simple request is all that it takes to make a man feel needed. It can be anything from opening a jar for you to grabbing your jacket for you. Men love completing tasks and they love feeling helpful. If you have asked your man to help you with something and you have made him feel needed, you have accomplished step 1!
Ready for step 2? Make your man feel appreciated. Thank him and let him bask in the glory of knowing that he helped you and made you happy. You can even go a little over the top and pile it on thick with a lot of praises. He wants to make you happy and he will love seeing how one small task can really do the trick. A lot of men are worried that they can't make women happy, especially not for the rest of her life. That is why many men are afraid to commit. If you made your man feel appreciated and capable of making you happy, you can check step 2 off the list!
This takes us to the 3rd and final step... Make your man feel accepted. Don't try to change him. Love him for who he is. Take the good with the bad and embrace his quirks. Your unconditional love will make him feel comfortable and accepted. Step 3: Complete!
Doing these 3 things for your man will make you irresistible! It will also strengthen the bond between you and your man, take some things off of you plate, and, most importantly, make your man feel happy and loved.
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In the early stages of dating, sometimes men and women aren't on the same page. I know this from personal experience. I met a fantastic woman on OkCupid and things were going great. Over the course of a few dates, we learned a lot about each other. We had a lot in common and the physical attraction was definitely there. Even though it was early it just felt right to ask her to be my girlfriend. She was shocked! It was too soon for her and she was not interested in taking that step yet. I was left feeling rejected and disappointed.
You live and learn, right? So what did I learn? First, let's talk about science! Studies show that men know if they are falling in love with someone after 2 dates. Woman, on the other hand, will know after an average of 14 dates. Why is this? Men tend to feel the physical attraction, get pulled in by her personality, and BAM... they're in love. It's different for women. They need time to feel safe and secure and like they can trust the man before they fall in love with him.
So, how do you know when you should become exclusive? First of all, don't take it too seriously. If you do, it will only put pressure on you and your relationship. Continue casually dating the person and see where it goes. If you want to stop seeing other people, go for it! Let your partner know that you aren't seeing anyone else. If they are ready to take that step, too, great! If not, give them more time. Just make sure that they are interested in becoming exclusive with you in the future.
Ladies, if a man asks you to be exclusive early on in the relationship, it is not a red flag. It's just a sign that he has really fallen for you. He is letting you know that he doesn't want to be with anyone else. He only wants to be with you. If you aren't ready yet, that is totally fine. Take it as a compliment and let him know how you're feeling. If you like him and want to continue dating to see where it goes, be open and explain that to him. If you don't see it ever ending up that way, let him know that.
You will know that it is time to be exclusive when you both don't want to date anyone else. You both feel like you've found someone that is really special and you are ready to commit to them. This is a big step but this is also a wonderful step. When you are fully committed to someone, you are showing that person how much they mean to you. You want to love that person and that person alone. You want to be with that person and that person alone. You are ready to be exclusive.
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There are 3 things that men really want. These 3 things will make him feel important, valued, and happy. They will also make you irresistible to him!
So what are the 3 things that he really wants?
1) He wants to feel needed. In today's society, women are stronger and more independent than ever. They rely less on men and more on themselves to get things done. This has lead to a shift in the dynamics between men and women. Gone are the days when the men were the sole providers for the family. Women no longer rely on their men for financial stability. Women are also doing a lot more in terms of hands on projects at home. They can also hire professionals to help with moving or installing things in their home. This makes men feel like they aren't useful.
So, how can you make your man feel needed? It doesn't have to be anything big. A tiny request is all it takes! Asking him to help carry, open, or move something will make him feel strong and helpful. You can even simply ask for some advice. He will love that you are interested in his opinion and it will mean a lot to him knowing that he helped you. His help will not only benefit him, it will also take things off of your plate and help to alleviate some stress in your life.
2) He wants to feel appreciated. After your man helps you with something, show him that you are thankful for his help. Your kind words are a reward for a job well done, making him feel loved and valued. Everyone wants to feel important and everyone wants to feel like they matter. Show your man how much he means to you and how much you appreciate him by recognize and acknowledge his help.
3) He wants to feel accepted. We all have different and unique things about our personalities. These different traits and idiosyncrasies make us who we are. When you feel like someone accepts you just the way you are, you can be truly happy. Show your man that you love him for who he is. Accept him, quirks and all!
Remember, you are both independent but you can still show one another that you need each other. You are both important and special and you should make sure that you let each other know that. You are thankful to have each other and you appreciate everything that you do for one another and you should show it with your words and actions. You know that you have your differences but you should let each other know that your love is unconditional. If you can do this, you are a team and together, there isn't anything that you can't do!
Men are drawn to women who make them feel needed, appreciated, and accepted. So go on! Ask him for help, acknowledge his efforts, and love him for who he is. It will make him really happy!
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