There are some qualities that men find irresistible in women. EZ Dating Coach, Mike, broke down these qualities in 2 of my videos. You'll be surprised at just how easy it is to be irresistible!
In the first video, Mike shares a personal story about a fun beach date that he went on. It was easy and affordable and they really enjoyed getting to know each other. At the end of the night, his date said something that made her truly IRRESISTIBLE! She told him that it was the best date that she had ever been on. He was blown away! This wonderful complement showed him that he could make her happy by planning something easy. Men want women who they can make happy easily. The fear that they won't be able to make a woman happy for the rest of her life is actually what holds a lot of men back from making a commitment.
How can you utilize this information to help make you irresistible? It's easy! Just show your man a lot of appreciation. Get excited about the things that you do together and let him know what a wonderful time you are having. He will love feeling appreciated and special and he will love that he made you happy.
In the next video, Mike shared 2 more qualities that men find irresistible. First, you need to make a man feel needed. Today, women are completely self-sufficient. This is wonderful and absolutely how it should be but it leaves men feeling a little unneeded. This explains why you see a lot of men dating women who don't have their act together. How can successful women make a man feel needed? It's simple! Ask him to help you with something. Even a tiny request can have a big impact.
Once he helps you with something, thank him and make him feel appreciated. Your praise and kind words will make him feel good, not just because they are a reward for a job well done, but also because it is another example of how easy it is to make you happy. Lay it on thick and be over the top with your appreciation! It will make his day and it will make you irresistible!
Next time your man takes you on a date, be sure to compliment the activity, what you are eating, or the location of the date. Next, make him feel needed and appreciated. Everyone wants to be around someone who makes them feel good. Do these things for your man and BOOM! You are irresistible!
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After following Love Breakthrough Specialists, Johnny and Lara Fernandez, for years, EZ Dating Coach, Mike, was ecstatic when he got the chance to sit down and talk with them. He learned a lot in their Q&A session and he was super excited to pass the knowledge along to you! Here is a paraphrased summary of their insightful discussion:
Q) How can you can tell if your guy is the right guy for you?
A) There are several ways to tell if you're dating Mr. Right:
He doesn't disappear on you. He is present and interested in creating a meaningful relationship with a future. Keep in mind, disappearing is different from seeking alone time. We're talking about completely ghosting you, here!
He does what he says he's going to do. When he makes plans and he says that he is going to do something, he always follows through.
You values are in alignment. It is clear that you both want and cherish the same things.
He treats people with respect. He isn't just kind to people that he can get something from, he is kind to everyone.
You realize that he isn't perfect, just like you aren't perfect, but he is perfect for you. Everyone has quirks and everyone makes mistakes now and then. You accept each other and love each other unconditionally, no matter what.
Q) How can you tell the difference between a man disappearing and a man just needing some alone time?
A) There is a big difference between a man disappearing without a trace and a man needing time alone. Men need to have alone time to decompress and relax. This is especially important when they are stressed out or overwhelmed. Spending time in their man cave or out with friends will increase their testosterone. This is good for your man as well as your relationship.
Q) How can women can get a guy to commit?
A) The trick is not to "get him to commit". You shouldn't be forceful or manipulative in any way. You have to activate your man's masculinity by showing him that you are a prize in the relationship. Show him how wonderful it would be if you were in a committed relationship and then you can both move forward toward that goal. You always want to see progress in the relationship. You should both feel excited to be with each other and you should both feel loved and cherished by each other. You have to think about how you feel when you're together right now. Look to the future but don't get caught up in it so much that you can't appreciate the present.
Q) What is the sexiest quality that a woman can have?
A) There are many qualities that men find sexy. There are certain things in particular that really draw a man to a woman:
Confidence. Men love when a woman is confidant. You know that a man is right for you if he treats you like a prize, right... well, you have to treat yourself like you are a prize, too! When you treat yourself, you produce oxytocin, lifting your mood. Some oxytocin producing activates (OPAs) are going out with your girlfriends, eating a little organic dark chocolate, and being out in nature. You have to invest time, energy, and resources in yourself. This goes beyond treating yourself to manicures and shopping. Love yourself and learn about yourself. You need to become your own soulmate first then you can find your soulmate in the world.
Compassion. There is nothing more magnetic than kindness. People want to be around people who make them feel good. This compassion needs to extend toward yourself. You have to be kind to yourself and never talk negatively about yourself or others.
Q) What is the fastest way to go from single to being in a committed relationship?
A) In other areas of life, such as fitness and business, we feel comfortable asking for help and guidance. You see that someone seems to have it all figured out and you reach out to them for advice. The same thing goes for relationships! Turn to people who are in happy relationships and ask their advice and find a dating coach who can help guide you.
Mike had a wonderful time talking with Johnny and Lara. It is so great to share knowledge and learn from others in this field. Now get out there and find Mr. Right!
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Flirting can take 2 strangers and set them on the path to becoming a happy couple. EZ Dating Coach, Mike, gets asked about the best flirting techniques all the time! Here are some tips to help you turn your attraction into a relationship:
1) Wave him over
Let's say that you spot a man that you are interested in... Give him a smile and wave him over. Some of you might be thinking that this is a little too aggressive. That's the point! A lot of men are afraid to make a move because they don't want to face rejection. Your waving them over will help to alleviate that anxiety, giving them the confidence that they need to come over. He knows that you are interested in him so he won't be afraid to make a move and he is the one who is walking over to you, making him feel like he is picking you up. This is also a booster for you as you are taking a hold of your love life and not just waiting for love to find you.
2) Give him great eye contact
Giving someone great eye contact makes them feel important. You are showing them that they have your undivided attention. You are making them feel interesting and, more importantly, you are making them feel heard.
3) Speak slowly and confidently
The number 1 most attractive quality in initial attraction is confidence. Let him know who you are and be proud to tell him about yourself. He will want to learn more about you and really get to know you.
4) Be playful
This can be anything from having a sexually charged look to leaning in and touching his arm. This playfulness is sexy and intriguing and it will show him that you are definitely interested in him. This will make him feel more confident in asking you out and taking things to the next level.
When you follow these tips, you are initiating a conversation by eliminating any fear of rejection. Next, you are showing him that you are truly interested in him. This makes him feel good about himself and it continues to show him that he doesn't have to be afraid that you are going to turn him down. Lastly, by being confident and playful, you are not only turning him on, you are solidifying that fact that there is a sexual attraction between the 2 of you. Now that he sees that you are interested in him and the sparks are flying, he will want to take things to the next level. Give these tips a try! They work every time!
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