Mike filmed this video with a chipped tooth. He felt embarrassed and silly but he thought that it was important to be vulnerable and confident. He wanted to show you how important these traits are, especially when it comes to dating and relationships. Studies show that the number one sexiest thing for both men and women is…CONFIDENCE! When you are vulnerable with someone, you are showing them that you are confident enough to open up.
So, how can you be vulnerable in your relationship? Don’t be afraid to let him in and tell him how you feel. This can be anything from sharing your fears and anxieties about the future to talking about something difficult that you went through in the past. This will help you really connect and bond and talking about these types of things will also help you to move passed them. Your vulnerability will draw your man to you and really opening up will bring you closer than ever.
Now that you know how to be vulnerable, let’s talk about how to be confident? Speak your mind and tell your man what you want. Confidence is not only sexy, when you are able to come right out and say what you need, you are more likely to get it. Your man will love that he doesn’t have to guess what will make you happy. You told him what you need, he can help you get it, and then he will feel great knowing that he made you happy. It’s a win-win!
Being vulnerable can feel really scary but once you get passed those initial feelings, you will see how many benefits it has. It allows you to let your partner in and really bond and connect with them. It can also help you resolve an issue or find closure. If you aren’t a naturally confident person, the idea of being confident may feel a bit intimidating. You can do it! Once you do, you’ll see how great it is! Your man will find it so sexy, attractive, and refreshing! He will know exactly what he can do to make you happy and that will make him feel great! Feeling sexy and attractive will make you feel great, too! Being confident will also help you get what you need. You will be surprised with all of the wonderful changes that can occur when you are vulnerable enough to let people in and confident enough to stand up for your own happiness.
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In the video above, Mike gets personal and shares a story that illustrates an example of a very common issue. Mike and his girlfriend were heading to his cousin's wedding when they decided to stop to get something to eat. His girlfriend suggested that they get some Greek food and they found an awesome sounding Greek restaurant online. Everything was going great until Mike got a little lost. He began feeling really overwhelmed when his girlfriend tried to help me figure out which way to go. Then, when she then tried to have a conversation about something else, Mike totally lost it! Stressed out, he raised my voice at her. He felt awful for losing his cool and hurting her feelings.
Many men have this limitation and prefer doing one thing at a time. This is difficult for women to understand because they have ten times more receptors between the left and right hemispheres of their brains. This makes them far superior in the multitasking department.
There are some things that women can do to help men with these limitations. You can do your best to understand and accept that he needs to do on one thing at a time. Allow him to focus on completing the task at hand. Step back and give him some time to get things done. Once he finishes whatever he is working on, you can move onto something else. This will help him to feel accepted and at ease, he won’t feel overwhelmed or frustrated, and he will feel great once he completes the task. Men love solving problems and getting things done. If he can devote all of his focus to one thing at a time, he can get a lot more done than if he tried to do a lot of things at once and became overwhelmed.
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Has this ever happened to you? Your relationship seems to be going great and then BAM… your boyfriend disappears. You were probably left feeling hurt and confused and maybe even angry. You also might have blamed yourself. I am here to tell you that you are not to blame and you can and will get past these negative feelings.
This is the most important lesson that I can teach you: No one can make you feel anything. Yes, someone’s words or actions can bring on negative feelings but you have the power to turn it all around. Every day, you have to wake up and to decide how you feel. You have to tell yourself that yes, that person hurt you but if they are capable of doing that to you, you don’t want them in your life anyway. You have to move forward with positivity and invite positive people into your life.
I know all too well that this is easier said than done. The secret is that you have to fake it until you make it! How do you do that? When someone asks you how you’re doing, tell them that you are fantastic, amazing, or phenomenal! Even if I am feeling down or in a bad mood, if I use one of these happy adjectives and put on a happy face, I start feeling better. I bet you will, too! Give it a shot! It’s amazing what a positive outlook can do!
For the record, there are tons of reasons why a man might disappear and most of these reasons have nothing to do with their partner. Maybe he is not ready for a commitment… Maybe things just don’t feel right… Maybe he is panicking and can’t handle confrontation… Maybe he doesn’t think he’s good enough for you…Whatever his reasoning might be, if he chooses to vanish without coming to you and telling you what’s going on, he is not the one for you. He did not end the relationship in the right way but that relationship was meant to come to an end so you can find someone who would never disappear on you.
Keep in mind that there is a big difference between a man needing space and a man completely up and vanishing. Space is actually really healthy and helpful for men. When they are under stress, they need that time to decompress and clear their mind. If you see your man seeking out time alone, be supportive and let him know that you are there for him if he wants some company later.
When something brings you down, you can lift yourself up, even if you’re just pretending to be ok at first. Remember that there is always a reason why people do the things that they do. If he disappeared, that’s on him. Now, you are free to find someone who will stay by your side no matter what. Do your best to stay positive and it will get easier and easier.
The fake it until you make it method doesn’t work for everyone all the time. If you are feeling depressed, please know that you are not alone. I encourage you to reach out to loved ones and seek help from a professional.
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