Ladies: Have you ever felt disrespected or unheard in your relationship? Maybe he does things that you don’t like or maybe he isn’t showing you the kindness and respect that you deserve. This doesn’t mean that he is a bad person or that he doesn’t care about you. Your man might just need a little more guidance. He simply might not know how to make you happy and he might need you to tell him specifically what to do. Break it down for him by telling him what you need and be sure to explain why It’s important to you.
You have to set the standards in your relationship and your man has to rise to meet them. If he is treating your right, let him know. He will love knowing that he made you happy! If he just isn’t delivering, you have to hold him accountable. If you don’t, he will probably continue with the same behavior and he won’t give you what you need to feel safe, secure, and loved in your relationship.
Men also need clear boundaries for what is and what is not acceptable. This is also important to make sure that you are comfortable and happy. Be sure to specify exactly what your boundaries are in all aspects of your relationship. This can be anything from telling him what you are ready for sexually to discussing what you need on an emotional level. Don't be afraid to tell him exactly how you feel and make sure that you never do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Men actually find these limits to be very sexy and exciting and you should feel free to move at a pace that feels right for you.
If you need more from your man, let him know. Don’t be afraid to speak up. If It’s a good relationship, he cares about you and he wants to make you happy. A little guidance can go a long way! Give your man a roadmap to your happiness and you will both have a wonderful journey together.
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Online dating has brought countless couples together but it has also brought many people a lot of frustration. Why do some women seem to have better luck than others when it comes to meeting the right guy online? Get ready because I’m going to teach you the secret that will help you take control of you online dating life and find the guy for you!
Here’s how to start: If you aren't already on OkCupid, you should definitely sign up! They have created an algorithm designed specifically to help you find your match. To begin, head over to OkCupid and fill out the match algorithm questions. Men will be given a match percentage between 0-100% based on your responses. Men that have a score above 90% are guaranteed to have qualities that will be compatible with you. In fact, research shows that 85% of the men that have a 90% or higher match percentage with you will be men that you can really connect with.
Your next step will be reaching out to these high-scoring men. This is another big issue! Women need to send more messages! Women are sending an average of 2-4 messages per week when they should be sending closer to 50 messages. Don’t let that high number overwhelm or intimidate you. I’m going to walk you through it! Your message can say something along the lines of, “Hi! I hope you’re doing well. How is your week going? Let me know when you get a free moment if you’d like to great a drink sometime”. If you are not the type of person that is ready to go on a date right away, when he responds you can say, “I’m so glad you want to grab a drink! Let’s chat on the phone for 10 minutes and when we’re done, we’ll set up the date”. Letting him know that your conversation will be a short 10 minutes will help to alleviate any stress or anxiety over all of the unknowns that a first conversation can bring. He will love that it won’t seem overwhelming or like a lot of work.
Once you send out your 50 of so messages, you should receive around 12 responses. Look through them and pick 1 or 2 men that you feel could be a great fit for you and go on 6-8 dates with them. During these dates, they will show you if they are right for you. Either way, you should be able to have a nice time and enjoy the experience of dating good men.
Take advantage of the algorithm and trust that it will help you to find someone that you are compatible with. Allow it to remove the stress of online dating by showing you which men you are more likely to hit it off with. Use this helpful technology to weed through the low-quality men, enjoy going on dates with high-quality men, and find the right guy for you!
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